Thursday, July 21, 2011

BPD break up the effects.?

It sound like you may have been taken on some emotional abuse in the relationship. I don't blame your reasons for wanting to get out of the relationship, bipolars require a higher level of commitment than normal people. The tumultuous up and down nature of this illness can often make it very hard on relationships and close family. Perhaps some counseling or therapy can help you make the transition. Hope this helps, good luck.

Where can I buy korean clense cream online?

I want to buy korean clense cream or face wash...I want to try something like on the cf's that sulli and girls' generation do...!

Didn't tip at a Salon?!?

If they're mad at all, they're mad at your dad. Adults don't expect teens with their parents to be accountable for poor tipping etiquette. Don't worry about it. Take an extra 5 with you next time and slip it if your dad remains stingy.

How to keep a bored cat happy?

Hello, I have had my little angel, Harriet, for the last 13 years and needless to say she has had a very exciting life. She is a Euorpean Shorhair mix I got from the humain socirty 12 or so years ago and has been my best friend since. About 2 years ago her playmate, our dog, passed away of brain cancer he was 15 when he passed and since then we have moved from our nice big 3200 sq ft home on an acer of property in Idaho to a smaller home in order to start a new job in New Mexico. In addtion we spend much more time at work (my husband and I were students)m less time at home and there are less people ( we lived with my parents while at school) with her. It breaks my heart that every time we come home she runs to the door and cries and beggs to played with (which I do love to do with her) but seems like the long day alone has been a torment. My parents bought 2 new puppies which she did not take to and in the past she has had mixed reactions to other cats. Should I get her a friend to play with? Or is that now abandoning 2 animals all day? What would I do if they did not get along? I have tried giving her window shelves a fish to watch even bought her 3 new interactive toys! She still seems depressed! Please Help!

My 4 year old seems to cry all the time?

It's normal. I have a 4 years old, also babysat a lot of 4 year olds and they all seem to go through this whiney,crying, temper tantrum phase.

Are you interested in this story?

Well, I don't think I'm one to judge because I'm Singaporean and may not grasp stories as well as an American or an English person can. I only understood the first paragraph - maybe you could try to simplify the second and third paragraph for poor struggling readers like me. It's possible to overdo a story, you know. However although I don't understand the story, I can still tell it's a beautiful composition. Way to go!

I fall for unattractive guys... then they become obsessed with me then I become obsessed with them?

You're underachieving no doubt b/c of some feeling that you are inferior. You deliberately seek out those who fall short of your desires in the hopes that these unfortunate lotharios witl treat you as badly as you feel you deserve. Ultimately, you are afraid of rejection by those you deem worthy of your affection, so you take the coward's approach. Probably your conquests sense even if you're not overt that you despise and demean them so they reject you, naturally. They only way to change this is to get to the bottom of why you feel so undeserving of love's' 'full monte' with a good therapist. Women have comparatively little experience with success in this culture. What little they have is often begrudged and/or challenged. You're certainly not alone with this problem, which effects both genders regardless class, education, money, etc. Deal with it now before you find yourself married to one of these monsters.

Where can I find those long skinny hoodies?

My professor (Who I swear looked way younger than any of us in class) had these really cute hoodies that were long (they went to her shin) and skinny (fitted). Then I saw them worn in a korean drama. Where in the USA or online could I buy one? Do they have a specific name other than hoodie? I don't like the short and baggy hoodies that stores have to offer. Please and thank you :D

International plug converter?

I am taking an international flight with Korean Air and they have these new planes with chargers for each seat. What kind of converter do I need for my American plugs? Thanks!

Overstayed visa in America?

My uncle is a South Korean citizen and visited America some time in 1995. He overstayed his 3 month visit by approximately 8 months. I was wondering if enough time has passed for him to come back to America (plan to stay for 1 month) and if there are any restrictions or paperwork to fill out...

Need help from military wives! Please!?

So my fiance is in training right now in another state because hes going to iraq for a year. When he first left he would text me as much as he could and tell me he loved me all the time and that he misses me and all that good stuff and i would always wake up to goodmorning texts. Lately he hasnt been texting me except for maybe 2 or 3 times a day and when he does its kind of just one worded things and it seems like he doesnt really want to talk. We were also skyping a few times a week and now when he actually does do it, which is rare, he acts like he dreads it and we talk for literally like a minute and he tells me he wants to go to bed. He also doesnt really tell me he loves me anymore. He told me a few days ago that hes acting that way to "emotionally detach" homself for when he goes to iraq and he wont be so focused on whats going on back home. He has tried to reassure me that he still loves me just as much as he always has if not more and he still wants to marry me as soon as he gets back and there is nothing going on with other girls which i wasnt worried about in the first place. When i try to talk about things hes either to busy or he doesnt want to worry about our relationship and quickly cuts me off. Has anybody else gone through this? I need advice because im already so worried about him going over there without worrying if hes going to forget about me or leave me. This is his first deployment by the way. Help!! :(

Ferrets help pleasee?

Once my male ferret is neutered I'm going to get him a spayed female playmate and I'm wondering if a female is the best choice? And how do I introduce them to each other? Also should I take him to the shelter and let him pick his new friend?

Please help me , i may be on the verge of killing myself!?

a year and a few months ago i had a weird sensation and i panicked. what i remember was that i started thinking why us humans fix ourselves if we cant see ourselves and from that day on ive been living like this.For like 5 or 6 years i would suffer from horrible panic attacks maybe 3 times a day and anxiety. i would fear death i used to think i was always sick and dying. whenever i went out i would panic , id feel like im sufficating and get panic attacks however whenever i felt safe i would be so happy and back to normal. like 3 years ago i had a thought that was that i didnt recognize my family, as if i didnt know who they were. that sensation lasted a few months and quickly went away.2 years ago the same thing happened however this time the thought was that my heart was beating too rapidly and going out of control.i stayed with this panicky thaught for almost a year. all those years i felt haunted , i ddnt like leaving my house without knwing there was a hospital near by or a way out . mental illness is not common in the family however my aunt and cousin both suffer from sever stress and my grandma for alzheimers.howver a year and a bit ago this new thought happend but this time it keeps on worstening.at first i would just question life , like whats the point in doing things , why are we here , why cant we see ourselves and all we do i see were like machines trapped inside boxes like our soulds are one thing and our bodys another.then it progressed , id have more wierd thoughts that would lead to panic attacks. but these panic attacks were different , i wouldnt feel suffoctation or dizziness instead id feel as if i was loosing my mind , like i was being detached like my soul had to get out of my body .suddenly everyday i feel as if im watching my life through someone elses point of view , i dont enjoy the things i used to do before i feel as if im not real my lifes not real and sometimes when i see myself in the mirror i dont recognize myself even though i am aware that thats me . i dont like leaving my house though i really want to , i wanna socialize and be a normal teenage girl.my symptoms worsten when im bored , stresses or getting my period . when im distracted 100 % i feel normal , im not scared and i go out i forget my thoughts , sometimes this lasts for a whole month maybe 2 .but eventhought i feel normal im just 80 % normal because i still feel unreal or like a machine trapped in a box .i still feel empty as if im not living my life . im just 16 years old i wanna be able to live my life normally but now im questioning wether i will . sometimes my attacks get so bad that i feel like KILLING MYSELF , or just want to sleep and begin to cry. please help me , guide me and tell me what to do what this is , is it curable , am i going insane ?1 please help me

How to prevent pregnancy without leaving my dog at home?

I spend the night at my fathers on Saturdays and usually go over for a few hours one or two other days as well. My 11 month old dog goes with me, and after an initially rocky start, has made best friends with my dad's 6 month old yorkie. They go crazy for each other and she looks downright depressed for a while when we go back to my moms. i hear he does too after she leaves. On Saturdays she sees me packing up her food and toys and goes nuts. The only problem is she's a 7.4 lb Pom/chi and Teddy is a 3 lb yorkie and neither are fixed and they never will be due to health reasons. I really don't want to leave her home since she's due to go into heat soon, and would hate to keep them separated if I did take her. She has no other close doggy friends and just lives with two crotchety old cats. Teddy has no friends either and lives with a two large 13 year old neutered dogs and a cat, so he has no playmates at all either besides her. Would it work to put a sanitary diaper on her or a belly band on him? I am also not willing to use medical means of birth control as they raise the risk of canine mammary cancer, but I have absolutely NO intention of ever letting them breed

Im 20, i cant focus, have short term memory problems, fatigue, i feel weak or unmotivated, easily distracted?

Hi. I have theories about a condition i think i may have, but i dont want to make false assumptions and convince myself i have it, so im asking what it may be. Lately at work i havent been able to focus, my attention is drawn easily from tasks, i cannot pay attention to detail, and my supervisors are starting to notice, telling me im in lala land and that im somewhere else although my body is there. Im also feeling weak, almost like i havent slept. i sleep plenty, but not good sleep, or at least it doesnt feel like it. it almost feels like im detached from the rest of the world, living a life disconnected from the network of society. i always feel like theres somewhere else i have to be. im impatient, and i as much as i try to focus on my work, i cant. i feel like i could be so much further ahead if i could concentrate.im 20 years old, i quit smoking about 4 months ago, and i work nnight shift if it makes a difference

How much would you pay for this couch?

Im not sure how old it is, about 5 or 6 years i think. Its a dark green, really soft, and is like a normal 3 seater with an ottoman that you can make attatched to the couch by using the long cushion or using the small cushion and making it detached. it comes from a home with no smokers, but we do have cats and had a dog. The covers on the cushions come of and are clean. Its in great condition except there is a decorative plastic piping inside the cushion covers that came out on one of the cushions. Its been in storage for about a year and i need to sell it. How much should i ask?

Are there laws surrounding underage children living in detached quarters from their parents?

My 7 year old son just moved to a new house with his mother and her new boyfriend. His mom is living/sleeping in the detached garage with her boyfriend while my son and his two siblings (his nine year old sister, and his 11 year old brother) live and sleep in the main house. I'm uncomfortable with this arrangement. Does anyone know if there are any laws that define this kind of situation in California?

My guinea pig needs a playmate?

I have a male guinea pig I heard that they get lonely and I want to get my guinea pig a friend, but I heard 2 male guinea pigs will fight each other because they are territorial or something, and I don't want to get a female guinea pig because they might try and mate, which I really don't want them to. So what should I do?

Starcraft playmate on us server?

I play on american server almost everyday but my friends r not online that often. I am not that good at starcraft but i luv phantom mode. Anyone wanna play with me plz tell me ur gamename and also code

It seems like everyone is playing?

When I realise the guy is not playing, then I get kinda serious and he seems to detach like o what do I do now..

My 2 year old male Labrador doesn't listen to my commands at all,HELP!?

No i'm thirteen and the youngest and i nearly trained my dog to perfection. When ever he barks at you then ignore him. Also you can get him to pay attention to you by taking him on walks and randomly stopping the make him sit. Don't go on until he sits no matter how long it takes. This shows him you are the boss and have control over him. Also don't baby talk him and when you want him to obey your commands use a firm assertive voice, and never get down to his level or rough play with him again it shows him you are his playmate not his master there fore he does not have to listen to you. When are walks make him walk at your heels and don't let him get lead.(alpha gets lead).

Is it possible to be inlove with someone when you're far from each other?

He's my childhood friend, we used to play together before but as we grew we started to get awkward with each other, we aren't talking now, Maybe we are only just playmates before and not friends. then I migrated to other country and I can only see him once in a year. As years passed, we really grew apart, it's awkward and I can feel that he feels the same way too, last september 2010 I went home in our country to have a vacation and I always caught him looking at me. But I need to leave the country again to continue my study and from then on he is always appearing in my dream, whenever I think of him I am feeling something weird in my heart, I always go to his site (facebook to be particular) just to see his face, it's really weird and now I am thinking of him everyday and that weird feeling in my heart is always there, I really wanted to see him. But I am afraid to admit to myself that I am inlove because for me, its impossible and I also don't want to get hurt, I am here in different country, I mean, is it possible to be inlove with him? because we're too far from each other. I really never expected that I'll feel this way towards him because the fact that we just seeing each other once in a year, we're not even that close to each other and I don't have news about him, our connection is only my big brother because they are close friends, that's all. But I can't help it I keep on thinking of him evryday and that weird feeling is really unexplainable. Please help. Am I only infatuated or this is love?

Can someone help me translate some korean?

You have a very very very very very very very very very very very small penaka!!! Bullaka Bullaka 619!!!!!!

How to teach my americans friends korean?

my friends want to know so they can practice speaking it to me. also i want to take them to Korea one day and they can order, talk to people, ask questions, and much more. can anyone tell me the answer?

Can magnets become weakened?

I have an 'iPad smart cover' which uses magnetism but I detach it and re-attach it a lot. Can this weaken the magnet?

When will my black molly give birth?

She's had a white ring around her anus for about a week, and she's very bloated and looks like she ate something twice her size, she's swimming up and down the planted corner of the tank, but stops and takes a break every minute or so to swim, hang around the filter/heater or pick at the gravel. Usually she interacts with the other fish but lately has been very detached. When do you think she'll give birth?

Just dumped a girl and now confused if I made the right decision?

When someone doesn't react or they ignore you it can be worse then having an all out screaming match. When someone can be that emotionless it means that they may not care to much about you "sorry to be harsh". It also could mean that she doesn't know what to say or how to handle things depending on how she feels about you. It seems like she maybe a very busy person and that the relationship has not been going on long enough for you and her to be #1 priority on her list. I would simply say to her that you really want to be with her, but you feel like she has not made time for you or time to give the relationship a chance to turn into more. If she has to much going on then maybe its best to break it off and leave things open for a future chance to get back together when things are less busy.

Help with Community Service Ideas for Teens?

I have always wanted to to join the Girl Scouts of America, but my time has passed and now I am too old. And by too old I mean 15.6. I was wondering if there is anyone out there who can help me brainstorm ideas for amazing community service opportunites. I am bilingual if that is helpful in Korean and English. I enjoy being outside and working with animals but I am up for doing anything. I'd rather not be connected with a church for I want to do these things with my Jewish friend and I don't want to favor any certain relegion and alienate some people who may want to help my cause.

I have a friends who I know and have known who come across as quite composed and calm and unfuffled..?

like they are controlling their emotions and themselves quite a bit, I really like this personality type, the cool calm and collected type. I have never really been that way, I think these people are most respected and liked in my eyes mainly because of these personality traits they have. I think I have many good traits naturally myself, but recently I have been described by 2 people that didn't know me very well as "bubbly" - I couldn't hate that description anymoree! and have never tried or wanted to be that way..and so my question is, if you are described as cool, calm, collected and emotionally detached yourself, then is this something you mould yourself into being, or is it 100% natural? Do you hold a picture of how you want to be in your head and then be it, or is it something that happens naturally? I have a big problem when it comes to expressing my emotions they seem to leak out of every expression and conversation I have as well as laughing too much at times and I just think that cant be too cool (like cheryl cole who grates on me!) and do you think I/a person can change or is it just the way they are, basically!?? Any ideas, experiences and stories would be very helpful.. thank youu

Should I learn Korean or Japanese first?

Do Japanese. Easy! I started when I was 11. Writing it is easy. You can't just do both , you have to do one. It takes years to know Japanese

I am looking into getting a Great Family dog. Please help! What breed would be good?

I am married with 2 kids and one on the way. Here in the next few months we are looking into getting a family dog. I have a few breeds in mind as I am a animal lover, but would like to get others thoughts. My husband and I have a 3 year old heeler who is a wonderful dog, but she treats us like her heard(that is what she is to do, they are working dogs) because of this she protects us with her life. I love the fact she would die trying to help my girls. This leads to problems as well. We would like to take her out to a park or just to pets mart and can not. So we would liek to find a dog that we can take running with us or nice wallks on days in the park. A dog that loves people and a good playmate for my girls. Plus a friend for a the dog we have and love now. Please help.

Ladies, do you like Macho Jocks or Pretty but Nerdy types?

I think my type is the quiet, intelligent/nerdy type. I just find those type of people so endearing and interesting and I feel that we could click. But then again, I've more often than not clicked with the popular jock or charismatic types although they aren't my ideal. So I believe that a person's "type" means nothing. You can't dictate who you will or will not have chemistry with and it may just be someone you would least suspect.

Is my dog protective?

She is an all-muscle German Shepherd/English Setter mix. She's six years old now and has been leash aggressive her whole life. We've been to 2 group classes, a one-on-one with a trainer at our house, and even an 8 week long boot camp. None have been able to fix this, and we just don't have the money to throw away on something that won't work. We talked to a dog trainer about it and he said she could be protective of me (I'm the dog walker of the family) on walks. She loves people on walks. She smiles and wags her tail and tries to go up to anyone she sees. If she sees a dog she lunges and jumps forward as much as the leash lets her, barking loudly and aggressively. She doesn't growl or anything. I turn her away and walk in the other direction and she marks her territory right away, as if telling the dog not to come near us. She whines a little and always turns around to look for the dog. Is she "protecting" me from other dogs? This got a little better when we got our other dog, but they don't play or anything, so I'm her playmate. We used to have a black lab puppy over that she loved, but he moved away last year. Our neighbor has a mini poodle that used to be friends with her, but it hasn't been over in a long time and I'm afraid she'll hurt it, even though she was really nice and gentle when she came over.

So jealous and bitter of my cousin.?

I really don't want to sound mean here but you've had everything including what sounds like it should have been a wonderful family even if it was all boys. Girls are great but those boys were your babies and deserved as much love as a little girl would have gotten. The cousin that moved away sounds like she is having a good life too even though the people that are supposed to be her family treat her like they do. I feel bad for her not you. To be honest you really should see someone professionally because you're too old to be the way you are. You should feel blessed that you have what you have.

What do you think i am? (zodiac wise) just for fun :)?

im very loyal, im funny, im generous, loud, very talkative, fast talking, mind racing, hot temperd, manipulitive, arguementive, hateful yet joyful, always smiling, always joking, insecure. lovable but also detached. what do u think is my sun sign moon sign or rising sign is? id love to hear what u think :)

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Was i wrong to look at his text messages?

Although it isn't right to look through someones phone, I do believe your intentions were good. I would honestly probably do the same thing. You should confront him about it, tell him to set everyone straight.

Have nothibg in common with my friends.?

meet new people and try going to dinner or a bar or hanging out with them, and then try your old friends later. when they arent on it, invite them to do something fun off drugs. then later on drugs if you want

My 3yr. old chihuahua just had her very 1st littler and my 2 other female dogs are curious. What do I do?

I have 3 female dogs and one just had her very first litter three days. Obviously I'm not going to just let my other two female dogs get close to the new puppies but need to know how long I'm supposed to keep them away before it's okay to introduce them and allow them to be around the new mama again. One of them now walks around with a stuff toy and treats it like a real baby and they both whimper all the time when they hear the new puppies. Mama is doing awesome and is very tentative and usually has a calm and loving nature but due to hormones and motherhood her mood has shifted and she is very protective but that's understandable I just feel bad for her once very good playmates!

How to get through this? I'm being ridiculous?

So my fianc� is in submarines, in the navy, and legit works 16 hours everyday 7 days a week. He is never home. He is tired, emotionally detached, and angry. We have been fighting a lot lately, because of stupid reasons, but the underlying problem is I miss him terribly. I miss what we had when we were together, and spent time with each other. He leaves today for two weeks, and I'm besides myself. I know this is stupid because people go through 15 month deployments all the time, but I'm still sad, only because I already never see him and when I do it's brief and distant. I've been crying all day. What can I do? Please no rude remarks! I'm already sad as it is.

Is anxiety ruining my relationship?

Just recentley I got diagnosed with OCD and many other anxiety disorders. My mind has always really scewed things and made me very afraid of commitment, people, and scared of myself. About a year ago I was worried that the world would end, then that thought disapated. Then I was worried that i was blasphamous and full of sin, and scared of the devil. Then that went away after a couple months, me realizing that was very irrational. Then I woke up one day, and was scared me and my boyfriend were'nt meant for eachother and our relationship is fizzling. We didnt have a major fight, we get along really well, we love eachother. My mind has just been in constant battle with the thought for over a month. It is seriously the first thing I think about when I get up in the morning, and the last thing I think about when I go to bed. It also causes me to have major diahreah :( But now that this is going on and I'm having all these problems and anxiety about it, it really makes me think. Maybe its my gut saying HOLY **** what are you doing??? Yes I will admit that when our relationship first started I was kind of skeptical because I thought I might be too much for him. But the more we hung out, the more I liked him, and the more I cared about him. I see good things in him, and he is absolutley wonderful. I wouldn't change him for the world :) But now my anxiety is making me doubt everything, and its starting to make me become detached from him and my relationship. Its so incredibly sad :( I love him, but the anxiety and obsessive thoughts are making it fizzle. My negative thoughts are killing me, because I think if we broke up, my mind would find something else to worry about. I guess I'm just hoping Im doing the rite thing. Im going to start going to a therapist once a week to talk about past traumatice exeriences, and I just started taking anxiety medicine. Am I just trying to not face reality and accept that fact the things might of just fizzled, or am I really an anxiouse wreck and once Im on meds I can be myself and hang in there for the sake of my realtionship. Im soooooooooooooooooo torn up about this. Sorry about the spelling, stupid spell check is being weird.

Can someone translate this Korean song for me?

Hmm i don't know, but i the title for that song is "달리 되었더라면" meaning "If This Went The Other Way." Try searching the translations on google. I would translate it for you, but my korean is very poor. :(

A K-Pop Just Dance game?

I was wondering if anybody knew if there is a game like Just Dance only they use Korean songs rather then American songs.

1999 Hyundai Elantra muffler detached?

My muffler has detached from the exhaust. You can see it just hanging. What would be a quick fix? I haven't jacked the car up yet so not sure what it needs. What could be the worst case scenario and how much could it cost? I'm hoping I just need a clamp or coupler.

Good Techno Kpop Songs?

I'm looking for a Korean girl band with good techno styled songs. I love Orange Caramel, SNSD, 4minute and 5dolls. I however have tried T-ara, KARA, 2NE1, F(x) and others and did not specifically like any of their songs. So, is there anything else out there?

What are some nice areas to live in Manchester?

I don't really have much experience of Manchester myself but of those I have visited I would say Chorlton and Didsbury they are really nice areas.. hope this helps If your looking for a house in Manchester good luck!

Trade epiphone lespaul special 2 for full sized blueburst dean playmate?

Doesn't sound like a good deal to me. The Epiphone Les Paul Special II retails for more than the Dean Playmate...but hey, if you really like the Playmate and don't care much for the Les Paul then go ahead and trade.

How do I ride my pillow?

Okay I am kinda embarrassed about this question, but how do you ride a pillow? Do you like hump it? Do I have to take off my pants and panties? I really like masturbating and want to orgasm, but I'm scared to stick anything into my pu$$y. If you know any other good ways to masturbate without sticking anything in, then you'd be of great help! Oh, and I can't detach my shower head. Thanks so much!

My rat has red discharge around her eye?

... Q: I got my rats about a month ago. One of them, her name is Chloee, has formed bloody-looking discharge by her eye. ...

A question about the media and portrayals of asian men in the U.S?

ok now days is it true hollywood and american media (cuz no other place does this) still try to make eastern asian men look bad? Or is it changing..? I've seen some films and tv shows that positively portray asian men. Most of them are korean, hence s korea has a different relation with U.S than china, etc...anyway thoughts?

How do I change my middle name on school records?

Go to the naming records at the reception area and just ask them. They would be more than happy too as it's their job.

What should I do to get my guineas to trust me?

I just got a guinea pig two weeks ago. And now I jus got her a new playmate. But the new one is bigger. They both seem to get along but mine first one is very skiddish and my new one is skiddish and I'm trying to get them to trust me. I just took out the hideaway like someone suggested to do so. They said for 15 minutes and iam. But what should I do? My first one won't eat strawberries or anything like that. And idk about the new one since I got her yesterday. Bit it's just hay and guinea pig store bought food . And skiddish. Please help me!

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

How much money does it cost for a guinea pig to go to the vet?

My guinea pig is not sick. He is far away from sick. HE IS AWESOME. A healthy guinea pig. But here pretty soon i am gonna get him a playmate. Maybe a girl. that is a nother thing. WHich sex is better with a boy guinea pig that is so sweet? Well when i bought him he never hurt the other boy guinea pigs. Or girls. lol. Well, i wanted to ask that to. How muc does it cost to get a guinea pig spaded or neuterd. i can't spell that word. don't no y. Well. I live in alabama andi have never been to a vet here. So if anyone can give me a clue. I would be delighted. and when i do get a 2nd guinea pig. should i take them both to the vet, or just one? thanks if you answer. by :-)

Karaoke! Does anyone know of a place that has private rooms and a good selection of Spanish songs? LA Area?

Looking for private room Karaokes! I have found plenty with Korean and English song selection but none with a good Spanish selection. If anyone knows of a good place with private rooms around OC or LA Area - even San Bernardino would cool. No open karaoke bars, I know plenty of those that are local. Only private rooms. Thanks

What does it mean if everytime you talk to a guy he says to come see him?

He keeps saying to come see him. When you make plans he detached. It sounds like hes interested he is just worried I am going to mess up the plans.

What to do if old cat seems both afraid of and mad at new kitten?

Take a look at DearTabbyTheAnswerCat.com. They have an excellent article in "Cat Care" on "How to Introduce the New Kitten/Cat to Your Cat." Helpful!

Other than Maxim Korea, are there any more magazines that feature pinups of pretty Korean girls?

I like Korean Maxim, and manage to get it here in the States fairly regularly. I was just wondering if there were any other magazines I was missing.

Will my depersonalisation go away?

ive had it for about a month and a half on and off, about a week ago i thought it was pretty much gone, then i had a really bad sleep and started stressing and then boom, its back. will it ever go away? it really effects my speech. i say things with out thinking and i feel detached and depressed some times. please helpp me. i was a normal happy kid and then i had my panic attack and it all went down hill form there,

What could be wrong with me?

I'm usually okay with picking up friends, but hardly ever any closer than acquaintances. And when there is ever a a certain period of distance, say a couple of weeks or so, I find myself detached from even my best acquaintances. Recently, I picked up some very good friends that I love very much, and since we were all at boarding school and had to go home, I've found myself distanced from them as well. The main thing I'm getting at is the simplest things will pull me apart from people, and I can spend every hour of every day with one person, and then our friendship will deteriorate over the matter of a few weeks. As though I wouldn't mind if they weren't in my life anymore. I look at my other friends, and they're still talking to people they haven't seen in years. I don't understand it.

Ok please tell me if I did this right.?

I followed all the steps on the R 134a can of refrigerant for my ac. I attached it to the low compressor. then turned on the car put the ac on high and then turned the valve to release it into the car's ac. after about 10 minutes I noticed that the needle on the gage was pointed all the way to the red and the car began to blow hot air instead of cold air. Obviously something went wrong. And then I remembered that I forgot to shake the can well before I attached it to the compressor. (could that be why?) I don't know but something is not right. When I detached the can, it seemed as it was still full and that nothing came out. What did I do wrong? Should I try it again?

Would you keep waiting in this situation?

The key word here is "can". This sometimes happens, but in very few dogs. Now, they just say that raisins are bad for all dogs just to be safe. If he Had acute renal failure, he would be very sick right now. Since he seems fine after a week or so, I would say everything is fine, and not to worry. Dogs eat things all the time. My dogs actually get raisins for treats sometimes (since they were puppies), and they are 6 and 7 now; perfectly healthy. If you are really worried, try to use an online translator and go to the vet. Translate "My puppy ate raisins. Can you tell me if he is sick" in Korean. I would also say this to the vet in korean "I don't know korean, I just translated these sentences". This way, maybe he will shake his head yes or no on if your dog is sick. Or, you can hire a translator. I would say he is fine, but go to the vet if you want. I don't think this will happen, but as you said...you don't wanna lose the little guy!

Top Korean Girl Band songs?

I'm looking for a few new songs to listen to, and I only have a few requirements. It needs to be Kpop, and be a girl Band, NOT A SOLOIST. And i am really into the techno and pop styled dance music, not the lovey dovey romance songs, any suggestions.

ANSWER... Please.. He SAID he wants me?

IF a guy says he wants to see you really bad and then starts to detach a bit does he STILL want to see you? Hes said over and over he wants me but he kinda changed but now I Want him Really bad. should I still go see him?

Wondering about other breeds to go with a labrador to join our family?

Golden retrievers are always a good option. Very kid friendly, intelligent and doggy friendly too if they are trained properly

What to do with our dog?

There are millions of dogs that are never walked and do not interact with other dogs. The life of the dog may not be perfect but you can make it better. Spend time with the dog. Play with him. Run in the backyard, play fetch, set up a home made agility course, teach the dog obedience and tricks. The dog will know you care and are his best friend.

Help! What are pros and cons of sculpting paper playmate for my bobcat?

My bobcat is lonely and needs a playmate. Should I sculpt a paper cat for her to play with? She is also fat and needs exercise.

Why is my water bill so high? Was �46 now �84 a month can anyone help?

are you on a water meter ,also you may have a leak between the mains and the house ,i have heard of that allot ,there are things you can do ,put a brick in the toilet that saves loads of water over the year ,if the people down the road are the same go and ask them what they are doing to save water . you might get some good advice off them.

Whats this korean drama called?

A rich girl whos hated.her husband dies and everyone believes that shes happy that hes dead cuz she gets all his money.she meets a poor-ish guy who gets a hold of a really expensive cat of hers.and she gets a hold of his dog.there was a part where they were dramatically switching back the animals they had.i stopped on that episode.does anyone know this drama??

Is having 2 children much harder than having 1?

Or is it actually easier since the first one now has someone to play with and you aren't their only playmate anymore?

Why do european and asian have quite different appearance?

european and asian have the same kind of ancestor long time ago before they left africa.but now european and asian looks quite different ,asian means chinese japanese korean not pakistain or indian .pakistain and indian are closer to european .it is because of europe is cold?but north korea is also cold,and japan is also cold,and japan is like europe covered by forest,is it because of elevation? and asia and europe have the same elevation. but anyway can anyone tell me is it because of elevation?

EMERGENCY! BABY BUNNY IS SICK!?

I got a baby bunny, 2 months old a couple days ago and he is doing great. Happy & healthy. We decided that we wanted to get him a playmate this morning to keep him company during the day, we went and got him a friend which may or may not be his sibling, we got them from the same breeder who said they may be from the same litter. They look like twins and laid together/ cleaned each other the moment they got back together. The bunnys are Dwarf Lionheads and are both tiny only 2 months old. The new one played around today a bit was very happy when we first got them together. They are both on the same food that they were in the pet shop, so no changes in pellets. But we did give them treat chews today which is our mistake. We believe thats what caused the new one to get this way. He has very bad diarrhea nonstop. I took him out onto my bed and am trying to syringe him water with vita-drops in it. I've gotten a little in his system and he seems just like he would be normally, walking around the bed cleaning himself and the water i get around his mouth. But that diareah keeps coming out. I need some home remedies you guys! please anything will help. i cant take any risks here hes just a baby barely lived two months. Cant take to the vet in the morning due to money problems, but will do all i can to save him. PLEASE, try to help. ANYTHING Will do.

Playmates is fine by me, why ruin it?

I am in a non-relationship and i like it that way. We enjoy each others company and enjoy a good sex life then return to our respective lives. but recently the guy looks at me in this gooey eyed way and it makes me feel guilty. I am happy to go on the way things are however, I don't want to hurt him by keeping him at arms length but then again i don't want to lose him by bringing it up....what to do?

Need help to get ready for baby keets!?

So i found two eggs in my female parakeets nesting box yesterday and found three today! I'm not sure if they're fertile but I'm not gunna take any chances. They are at least one year old and she he's a little male playmate. I wanna do all I can do to help. There's one banana mineral thing, one white cuttlebone like perch thing, veggies and fruit fed to them regularly and conditioning supplement seed for stressful times mixed in with theyre regular diet. What else can i do to help the outcome of healthy SURVIVING newborn baby parakeets hatching out of those three lil eggs? The female has been sitting on them almost 24/7. And how could i find out if theyre fertile or not? Is there a way? And i keep the room mildly hot most of the time. Will that help any?

Monday, July 18, 2011

Really worried bout my gf 3 weeks after birth HELP?

After a text book pregnancy Lucy gave birth to our son. The birth was difficult after 18 hours she finally had to have an emergency c-section Lucy was petrified of having a epidural and was very distressed but it was the only option. After she couldn't breadtfeed, the baby wouldn't latch on and when he did he wouldn't stay on the nurses response was that Lucy wasn't trying hard enough and gave her a lecture about how breast is best and that the baby wading missing out. Lucy was heart broken but tried to hide it. Lucy seemed to be detached from the baby she only held him when someone gave him to her. She never talks to him, she spoke to her bump all the time during pregnancy. She wasn't eating much. She would sleep a lot and when I would leave she would become really upset she has never been clingy. When she was discharged things just got worse she just seemed to carry on like the baby wasn't there, she only holds or feeds him when prompted. She is very tearful she wants to be with with me all the time she wants to be held which I don't mind, but this isn't like her. I have bass to go back to work (I work full time in an office and as a bounced on a Fri and sat night) there is always someone with her to help with the baby as she is.still recovering. She seems completely detached from everyone but me, yet she barely speaks to me she was a complete chatter box before. I am really worried I have spoken to her and she just says she doesn't know what's wrong. The midwife says its baby blues. I have a child from a previous relationship ( this is Lucy's first) and I don't think this is baby blues. I love Lucy but I am at my wits end I am exhausted from work and looking after the baby and Lucy. I just don't understand where my old Lucy is and i am scared for her can anyone help?

I want to buy a companion for my chinchilla. Male or Female?

You should get a male chinchilla if the one you have currently is quite young, but if it is quite old you should get a girl and neuter the boy. He won't feel a thing and will feel alot better and act normal in a few days.

Can Korean reunification happen?

Will North Korea end up like Russia at the end of the Cold War or will it be reunified? North Korea is backed by China, but could the North Korea end up like China despite the economic and political hardships there? Should China back out of North Korea and if it does, could North Korea collapse?

Are dean playmates Guitars any good?

Posting questions asking almost the same thing within such a short time frame will not get you a larger amount of high quality answers.

Are people who are unattractive get this way (or think they are not).?

I am just wondering this because my boyfriend is SO critical of girls. He is a very not good looking guy (I am just saying what is what people view as good looking,he is not to those standards at all!). Which brings me to my point of why the heck is he so critical of girls (who I think are VERY pretty and I'm sure most people would). He thinks that Kayla collins the playboy playmate isn't very pretty and she looks like a cabage patch doll. Ok really? He also thinks that so many other very pretty girls aren't good enough or very pretty. It's like why are you talking.. look at you. Please take this as a logical explanation and not "mean". I am just giving you facts that you don't know about to help you answer my question. So please don't say "that's your boyfriend your mean". I am just looking for the answer why is he like this?

My rat is extremely unfriendly with other rats, and I want to get a second one. Help!?

Its a sign of dominance. Animals living in the wild or not will fight to assert dominance. Your rat is showing your friends rat who is the dominant female.Just keep an eye on them and let them have it out. The sooner the better. If any blood gets drawn separate immediately and try again. She'll learn that rough housing is wrong and chill out soon enough. Tap her on the nose((gently)) when she starts to attack and tell her no in a firm voice. Its a slow process and you have to introduce them slowly and keep supervision on them to make sure they get along. They are like children and just slowly introduce them to one another. Give them time.

How are modern building joint/party walls constructed?

9 inch walls with thermos with cavity insulation usually 4 houses.Concrete blocks for other buildings.

How do i turn my Korean BFF into my BF?

My best guy friend is a korean guy who ive had a crush on for awhile. I tell him almost everything and he claims he tells me all too (uh huh..ya-___-) but he likes another girl who has a bf but he still likes her alot. He tells me im the best girl ever and the perfect best friend but I want more. And I want him to like me the same way. Some of my friends think the only thing keeping us from being ty ogether is a cultural but idk. Please tell me how to win him over. :)

Do ferrets mind being without a partner?

I am planning on getting a ferret soon and I was just wondering if they don't mind being without a playmate? Do ferrets prefer other ferrets? How will they act if they don't have another ferret friend? I plan on giving my ferret a lot of attention and proper care it deserves, I just want to know if he needs a buddy :)

I might have a pregnant shih tzu?

Okay, so I have a one year old shih tzu and I think she might be pregnant. (the possible daddy is a havanese, friend of mine is the owner and the puppies are playmates) I talked with the vet and have an appointment set up to find out for sure, but I just have a question out of curiosity. If she is pregnant, will ALL of her nipples do the whole grow and puff thing? A friend of mine says that depending on how many puupies she is carrying. Example: 2puppies=2nipple puffs <-lol....i wouldnt know because ive never had a prego dog before, so let me know if you actually KNOW an answer....no GUESSES please

When he is 'sleep nursing' is it ok to detach him and put him n his crib?

My son is 4 months and im exclusivle breast feeding not breast bottle feeding only breast. He falls asleep while eating and he just sleep suckes occasionaly is it ok to take him off n just put him in bed? He does this usually for 20 min

Hunters and gun owners, do you think that paintball and airsoft "guns" teach young people the wrong thing?

The way they play those war games YES it is. But the airsoft guns would be a good way to train a young person how to shoot and handling as if it was a real gun and all of the safety rules.Gust like my dad did when he gave me my bb gun.

Can someone tell me what movie is this?

Sorry I can't help. But in response to the person above, ha! how they can talk about it being sinful when we are all sinners, and theres nothing wrong with liking certain types of movies, as long as it doesnt get to the extent of what happened with John Lennon or other acts of crime. Good luck in your mission

Which is a better playmate for a baby rat?

I have a 3 week old male rat. Everyone says that they are very social animals and so I plan on getting another small pet for it. I am going to build a giant cage with levels and everything (mainly designed for a rat). While it is small, I want to get another small animal, I use to breed Guinea Pigs for show a few years ago so I know all there is to know with Guinea Pigs. Im new with the rats. I was thinking of getting a baby Guinea Pig around the same age and sex. Since theyre young enough they will have lots of time to get to know each other. I know their diets are very different and thats not a problem at all. Different water too. The cage will have lots of space for the Guinea Pig since they dont really climb that much. Everything will be perfect for the two to live together. But if I get them at the same age around 3-6weeks old (not sure when I will get the second animal) will they learn to get along? Also what else gets along with a Rat (other than a mouse and smaller things). And where are some good places to get cheaper small animal stuff (toys, food bowls, water bottles, treats, food, etc).

Have you ever had a wee laugh at the things children do and say?

These children says stories have been around a long time, they started with Art Linklitter back in the 50's and have changed a little to keep up with the times. They are amusing, as it just about every thing a kid under 4-5 will say.

What is iphone fonts that support hangul (korean letters) style?

with byta font if i change font, the hangul is still the same style. I want a font like samsung's choco cooky, that supports korean letters..

How long should i wait to have another child?

I would like to have two children as close in age as i can so Elise can have a playmate, i had Elise three days ago at 6 pounds 6 oz, but she was expected to come in early July. My doctor said i could have another child in six to twelve months but i was reading on the internet that the baby could be preterm, what do you all think?

Why planes arent fitted with a parachute/multiple parachutes for engine failure and other problems?

there's not parachutes on a plane because the chance of a plane crash is 5% and parachutes have to be inspected all the time its impractical. To put explosives on a plane creates more problems than it will fix and if you took off a wing you would fall faster.

I don't believe in love anymore does this mean I have a cold personality?

I'm not saying love doesn't exist, I know it does, I love my friends and family but I don't believe in being in love. I just feel the way people treat eachother when they're in 'love' is disgusting. All the time people say they're in love yet they still constantly hurt eachother and even if they've been married for years people still cheat, lie and hurt their loved ones. I think my definition of love is so much more meaningful than most people's. Yes I've occasionally seen old couples who've been together for ages who seem to really love eachother but it's sooooo rare! I'm worried people will think I'm cold and detached because I think love is an illusion even though I'm 16. Is there something wrong with me? /:

Can someone translate this in ENGLISH (korean language)?

Well, it doesn't make complete sense to me, but it appears to be a love letter of sorts. It mentions something about the benefits of the Sepon projects and some of it seems almost poetic in describing the distance between the two people in question. It mentions difficulty in the Phillipines. It seems like whoever wrote it really misses who they love. I'm not very affluent in Korean idioms, and this is full of them. Sorry if that's not what you were looking for.

My BF wants to marry me, but is afraid to because we have been fighting alot. help?

It might be that he's afraid or uncertain of marriage. Being married to someone you truly love can still be an ordeal at times. Confront him more firmly and directly, but no less lovingly. Tell him in the same spirit that you must have an answer, not a side-stepping reponse.

Is my cat stressed? Please help.?

She seems to get scared from loud noises. She meows like soemthings wrong every no and again. And her tail poofs up for no reason. She seems like she wants to be outside but if i let her my mom will be pissed and my kitten won't have much of a playmate. I only had her for about 3 mos and she's nine mos now. The people who sold her to me told me she was 4 mos but when i took her into the he said 7 mos. They lied about alot of other things too so i don't know if she's an outdoor cat or 100% indoor cat. Cuz if she's outdoor my mom won't let me keep her. She seems to spend her days my the gate and windows. If she's stressed how can i know and calm her and help relieve her stress pls help cuz its making me stresse

Why planes arent fitted with a parachute or multiple parachutes for engine failure and other problems?

Because the planes can either carry passengers and cargo, or they can carry the parachutes, but not both.

Shower head broke off my shower hose in my apartment. Is it my responsibility to replace it or the landlords?

I also need to know if I will be blamed for this. all I did was after a shower through my towel up on the curtain pole and that towel knocked down my shower head and broke a piece off of the hose. I should also state I never use the hose or detach it from the holder.

Fire dominates my chart and dont get along with fire signs?

im a gem but my moon venus and mars are all in fire signs and was in a relationship with someone who also had alot of fire in his chart, but the sex was horrible. i took over in the bedroom most of the time and he was detached sloppy and just didnt seem to know what he was doing . same thing with an aries guy he was really quick and finshed off in 5 minutes(dont understand how people say theyre good in bed). im more into the carressing,kissing, eyecontact touchy kind of thing. something that can last for hrs as opposed to wham bam thank you ma'am. i get most turned on by pisces or caps. or anyone with those two in their chart

Is this the seed that lives within every christian, can you begin to see why atheists object to you?

children are born pure as Angels, it is society, people and parents who corrupt the mind and influence a child's direction in life.

How can I get my indoor cat to drink water?

Don't worry. My cat is the same, she is outdoors alot and it doesnt rain hardly ever where i live and my cat hardly ever drinks, it seems like her water bowl never goes down but i know she drinks, my cat likes to drink when no one is watching her for some reason but sometimes i see her and she only takes a few sips, no cat drinks that much, they no how much they need so dont worry :)

I don't find hot girls hot?

like lately when I see a girl, if she's hot I feel like I want to nail her... but I don't feel overwhelmed with emotion when I see a hot girl. Same thing when I start talking to girls and their personality... there's no personality that makes me think "wow! this girl is so cool" while I'm talking to her... just that I'm talking to a woman but with a take-it-or-leave-it mindset. I'm just neutral toward the whole thing... I want to nail her, but at the same time I'm totally detached and don't give a crap how the situation turns out.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Do Asian men really only have small penises?

Chineese, Korean, Asian...Is it true that they only have small penises? I know it's a stereotype but is there anyone out there that has had a Asian man will a regular to large penis? 7" and up? Please let me know.

Need some advice on what to say to stop her walking with me?

I have two dogs, one is a puppy and i am currently in the process in the training her. There is a woman across the road with a dog and she likes to come out and walk her dog with me and mine as she thinks it's good for her dog to have some playmates. I don't mind walking with this woman but it's becoming too much, if i haven't passed her house by a certain time she will sometimes knock on to see if i am coming out to walk, but i am trying to train my puppy doing things such as sitting at roads and telling her 'wait' and 'ok to go' etc. The woman is saying when it's okay to go etc etc though and i want the dogs to listen to ME not her, also, i don't want to walk with the woman EVERY day! I don't know what to do or say to hint that sometimes i want to walk them by myself, any advice?

Is it too early for baby #2?

do whatever you want and feel like it, besides you are the one that is going to go through labor and the pain, no one else

My 2 year old staffy cries most of the day...?

Probebly becuse wen she was a puppy and she cryd yall gave her atenchon and so she thinks when she crys shell get what she wonts like to come in side and to get atention

So jealous of my cousin....how can I get past this?

maybe god didn't want you to have a daughter. maybe since she had a bad childhood she can have a good ending. why do you think you are any better than her. huh? do you think that you are more superior to her. that is just sick. no wonder you don't get along with the 4th child. he probably thinks so too. stop whining and be happy you actually have children. and you should also think about people who barely want one child. boy or girl and can't have any. i stopped reading this half way through cause i was done with this. oh and there is also something called adopting! stop whining and be thankful.

Garage Opener Problem, wont open from outside.?

If you have those spiral florescent lights in the garage or opener remove them. And buy just one new battery and try it. The remote control problem you are having is not usually due to circuit board failure. If the keypad will light up at night the 12v or 9v battery is probably good. Note: Will the pushbutton on the wall always work??

Why is it bad for a male to call another male "oppa" in Korean?

I know that "oppa" is typically used when a girl is talking to a guy, but why is it SO bad for a guy to call another guy "oppa" ?

Where can I download shows dubbed in Korean?

I'm learning Korean and want to improve by listening to Korean. I don't want it to be to hard so maybe something like Dora the Explorer or some other cartoon or kid's show. It can be either online (like youtube or megavideo) or a torrent site. Thanks

Cockatiel lower beak fell off. What to do? Will it grow back?

My cockatiel is losing his lower beak. He had an accident a couple of months ago and I noticed recently that half his lower beak is not attached. Then yesterday I came home and saw a lot of blood around his mouth and even more of the beak is detached. It looks like it is falling off. What can I do? Will it grow back?

Would this be considered molestation?

if the kid was your age...that probably wasn't molestation.....but that is really ****** up.....that kid may have been sexually abused as a baby/ young kid that may have lead them to do that....just because they didn't know any better.

Is anyone else exhausted of modern life?

Modern life is ****, people go diranged because teh sit indoors all day, in front of sceens, eating unnatural foods and to top it off real folks find it hard to thrive. In the past if you were brave, fast and strong you survived and thrived, nowadays that same excellent human would have to submit to schooling and sit behind a desk or be a shitty security guard. Modern life is rapping the enviornment, which is very sad, and people seem detached from reality, themselves and there land,. I really dislike modern life, anyone else agree? What is yall's spin on the subject? PRIMITIVE RENEWAL!

Koreans i need your help please.?

"It's raining a loooooooot.... When I don't have an umbrella on a rainy day like this, I really like getting wet haha"

My cat is selfish? what do i do?

I have only owned one cat my whole life and she just turned two and is the only animal in the house. I love her to death and sometimes I spoil her ..but who dosent? Well I've tried a few times to bring home a new "family member" so she has a playmate and someone for company. But every single time I try...she hisses and tries to hide or attack the new animal...whether its a small dog or a little kitten. I really want to open up my home to another pet...but she's so selfish about my attention. I want the other pet to be safe if I leave them alone. What do I do?

Is udresses a good site to buy korean messenger bags?

I want to buy this one bag already but I'm uncertain of its authenticity, I know a few people that shop there but they only buy clothes not bags

Sight after dog's eye popped out?

My 10 yr. old chihuahua got in a scruffle with my friend's bigger dog. Her eye popped out of its socket. I rushed her to the vet and she was in surgery within 10 minutes. The vet placed the eye back in its socket, sewed her eyelids shut, and 10 days later, we had the sutures removed. He said it would take a while for the muscles and nerves to heal. Her eye physically got a good report. No detached retina, no outward damage to optic nerve, lens is great, etc. My question is--she is blind in that eye at the moment. Does anyone know or have had this experience with their dog as to how long it usually takes for the sight to come back? (if it does at all?) I know her optic nerve obviously had some damage when the eye popped out due to immense swelling around it. I know it is in "shock" mode now and takes a while to heal. I was just curious as to how long. I also am aware she may never get her sight back in that eye due to the damage not healing properly. Nerves are delicate. If anyone has had this experience, how long did you have to wait until you saw signs of vision again in your dog's eye? Thank you.

Why are my baby bullfrogs showing up out of the pond dead?

I have a pond in my backyard (12 to 14 hundred gallons) with about 30 gold fish and a school of minnows. I also have water lilies and several other water plants with a bio filter, huge waterfall, and 3 UV lights. Last summer, I got a ton (75-100) tadpoles and they are now growing up to adult form. In the last week, I have found 6 in my yard and they are dead. I don't think birds are getting them because when I find them, they are not mangled or detached, they are whole. I have not used any kind of fertilizers on the grass or any other chemicals. I do have a lot of algae growing and am trying to get my pond water to clear up but I don't want to use any chemicals to do so. I am at a loss and hate to see them die. Any suggestions?

David De Coteau �s horror films = a clueless director?

Well I watch a lot of movies, and even obscure ones and I havent even watched any of his movies, so I guess he wasnt really a good director based on your given information.

Will my 3 year old Yellow Belly Slider turtle attack or bite my baby turtle?!?

I was thinking of getting my 3 year old Turtle a playmate when I go on vacation to Florida (where I got my 3 year old Turtle) and I was a little afraid that he might try to attack, bite, or even eat the baby Turtle! Please help!

HELP..Think beeping sound is coming from low battery in smoke detector...?

Just replace the battery. Should take all of 5 minutes. And thanks for the reminder I need to replace all the batteries in my homes smoke detectors.

Any suggestion of interesting korean books(not textbook) or novels that I could read to improve my korean?

I am a beginner and I know how korean language work. I need to learn more vocabs so the best way is by reading. Any suggestion of any books?

Which reptile is the right one for me.?

Well i have 2 crested geckos and their cheap, easy, and lots of fun to house and take care of! They eat crickets, meal worms, or this calcium paste you can get. I would highly recommend one to you!

Guys this guy is ignoring me repeatedly?

I know its something in my mind.. I detach when I start conversations so I don't get emotionally involved. I can feel it in my body. Well I have pushed this guy away, now I want him back but hes been behind it. It feels like he is lying and he likes me but is shy to say so. Its like the relationship went from cluttere to being organized, its just not materialized. Guys does this make sense to you?

What should i do for my fiance and my anniversary, in July?

Wear a nice dress and drive to the county records office. Make sure you have the price of a license in your purse.

Why is the topic of the modern horror movies mostly deadly boring?

A lot of these modern day horror films lack any type of storyline. They rely mostly on jump scenes and lots of gore, which is okay sometimes, but without a decent storyline, the movie gets very boring after awhile. Horror films from back in the day used to play off myths, legends and people's worst fears, whereas now some of the movie concepts come completely from left field and others are merely remakes (in which half of those are not up to par). Back in the 80s and early 90s, the stoner high school student & dumb, big breasted blonde slashers were cool, but seriously, how long can they continue making those films before they realize that moviegoers are getting bored with them?

What will going to a Korean school be like for a white girl?

It will help that you can speak Korean well. Work on it this year and try to be fluent. Learn to read it too. I am not going to kid you-- some kids might be bullies. But I am sure that you will be able to meet some nice kids, too. Besides school, you might also meet other kids at church and maybe your host family can introduce you to other kids. Believe in yourself and try to learn as much as you can. You will still be going to school there.

Where can i find a playboy bunny blanket like tihs?

Hi, You can get playboy bedding here a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/search?ie=UTF8&keywords=playboy%20bunny%20bedding&tag=recommended0b-20&index=garden&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325" rel="nofollow"http://www.amazon.com/gp/search?ie=UTF8&…/a Hope this helps.

Is it possible to be inlove with someone when you're far from each other?

He's my childhood friend, we used to play together before but as we grew we started to get awkward with each other, we aren't talking now, Maybe we are only just playmates before and not friends. then I migrated to other country and I can only see him once in a year. As years passed, we really grew apart, it's awkward and I can feel that he feels the same way too, last september 2010 I went home in our country to have a vacation and I always caught him looking at me. But I need to leave the country again to continue my study and from then on he is always appearing in my dream, whenever I think of him I am feeling something weird in my heart, I always go to his site (facebook to be particular) just to see his face, it's really weird and now I am thinking of him everyday and that weird feeling in my heart is always there, I really wanted to see him. But I am afraid to admit to myself that I am inlove because for me, its impossible and I also don't want to get hurt, I am here in different country, I mean, is it possible to be inlove with him? because we're too far from each other. I really never expected that I'll feel this way towards him because the fact that we just seeing each other once in a year, we're not even that close to each other and I don't have news about him, our connection is only my big brother because they are close friends, that's all. But I can't help it I keep on thinking of him evryday and that weird feeling is really unexplainable. Please help. Am I only infatuated or this is love?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

I feel offended when this happens...?

First off, I am 18, short and slim, and my ethnicity consists of 1/2 Japanese, 5/12 Korean, and 1/12 Black which brings me to this issue. People are always asking me my ethnicity and I always tell them what I just said or I'll just say Korean, Japanese, and Black. When I say "Black", I get these weird looks like "what?" and "You've got to be kidding me!" It's because I don't look Black AT ALL. My skin is light, I have Asian eyes and the Asian hair texture and whatnot. After I get those looks the next thing usually said or thought is "you just wanna fit in and be something you're not" which really hurts me for the fact that they don't even know me or my family enough to actually know that I am mixed with Black. I have been called racist for this for some odd reason. I don't see it as racist. So, to avoid feeling offended by others comments when they ask my ethnicity, should I just mention only Japanese and Korean?

Is it safe to get a puppy pug with a 6 month doberman in the house?

Some Dobermans are dominant with other dogs. Pugs are very timid and sweet where the Doberman is more aggressive. The doberman will feel threatened if another dog comes in with the same dominance so the combination may work. If you play with and take your doberman for walks daily they will be entertained enough they may not even need a playmate. Its tricky b/c some dobermans will get along with other dogs some wont. B/c it's a puppy you might be in the clear. Different sex combinations work best as well. You can try it out...Are you buying a pug? Adopting? I always suggest adopting... If so you could take your doberman and introduce them to each other before you make your purchase/adoption. If they are cool then...cool. If they don't get along then you know what to do from their...

Should I detach myself from the guy I like?... I need advice.?

Hey, im kind of in similar relationship! Well I would say if you feel that you really need a relationship make sure it's okay with him if you are able to date untill he is ready, but no i would definitaly not give up on him yet seems like you guys have a really close relationship he just needs time and if the time gets to long for you maybe it is time to detach yourself from him. You know? but give it time still continue to talk to him and help him get over it just do your best to support him and eventually he will get over it and if that dosen't work then I would move on untill he makes a move on you things will fall in place dont worry ; )

I am lost, what religion am I?

I have always considered myself a Christian as I believe in God and Jesus. I got serious in the religion about a year ago and I dropped out due to wanting to find my way because I got tired of how the rules are run. Over time I became detached, I started to enjoy it a lot more and my life is actually better in my own opinion since I am in control of it rather than some man in the sky. Now, I laugh and mock other Christians that still worship the way they do. I feel like I would want to slaughter them if I can't get them to do my own things. I pretty much feel sadistic out of what comes out of my head. I don't want to worship the devil or become Atheist, where would I fit it at then?

I would like to sell my property on my own?

100 x 200 lot w/10 x 50 Old Buddy trailer. 2 bed room. 1 car detached garage. Roof 2 yrs. old. Furnace 3 yrs. old. Central air. Well, Septic Tank. new pipe from house to septic tank. Trailer is comfortable to live in . With or without all appliances.

Will my german shepard get along with a st bernard pup?

I have a year old german shepard pup and im looking for a playmate for him and have my heart set on a st bernard but im afraid they wont get along...

How can we enjoy this world when God is owner of this universe?

you should make youtube videos with such content/philosophy. Make videos for each verse and can point to how they are inter-related with other upanishads and gita. Publish them.

Men, would you care if your wife had a girlfriend on the side...?

It would bother me. It's still somebody else intruding on our marital intimacy. I think fixing our time in bed would be a better answer than having some third party involved.

My male cat wont go outside and gets bored inside should i get him a playmate?

I would say go for it, everyone needs at least one friend. I say get him a little buddy but make sure they get along. You can always bring a cat over and see if he gets along with other cats before you get one because you don't want him to start acting like the king of the house and beating on the other cat. But I don't think he would since he gets bored inside and doesn't like to go outside, but I still think you should bring in another just to see his behaviour. Good luck! (:

Why are so many white men in Hollywood dating and marrying black women?

I could care less. I don't go around focusing on peoples skin color and who is getting with who. There are more important things to worry about.

How do you get a guinea pig to love you?

I just got a new guinea pig. I'm working on getting her a playmate so she's not lonely while I'm at school. But I would like for her to like me. Like learn her name or at least greet me. Basically i don't want her to run away everytime I get up and i certainly don't want her to be afraid of me. Please help me! :)

I've been rear-ended what should i do?

He has no legal right to with hold his insurance information. Did you get his license plate number? If so, call your own insurance company and set up a claim. Your company will run his plate, get all of the information they need to know, and tell him if he doesn't give up his insurance information they will be collecting the money for repairs directly from him. Chances are that he will give up his insurance information once your company is involved. If he doesn't pay, and refuses to pay despite collections, your company can petition the state to revoke his driver's license until he pays, thus ruining his career at Papa Johns. You may have to pay your deductible to get your car fixed but even a small bumper replacement can run anywhere from $500 and up, depending on the car, not to mention the hidden damages you are concerned about. You don't have to do what he wants, it's the other way around. It's never to late to file a police report but I wouldn't call 911. A lot of times you can do it on the police station's website.

Do you have a fat cat? Is he grumpy?

6 year old neutered male, stays indoors. He is very fat, 20 lbs. I have had him on a diet for almost a year and he hasn't lost any weight. I took him to the vet because he was acting strange and was very grumpy. I thought his teeth were bothering him. The vet told me he is grumpy because he is so fat and miserably. I got him a playmate to help him exercise, hoping this will help. My question is, do you have a fat cat? If so, is it grumpy?

Is it normal to feel emotionally detached after a severe panic attack?

ohh hunny i have a server anxiety disorder i just asked a question about mine(:.. but yes it is normal i have had some pretty bad panic attacks they have brought me to some extreme things they are so scary. and when i have them i feel as if im in a dream and nothing is reall. i feel like that when im not having a panic attack as well. im just in a state of dreamyness which is cause from anxiety and stress and i always feel like im loosing my lid. but it is very normal to feel that way i do it when i go into harsh attacks.. it will eventualy fade and you will start to gain emotion back. ive had it happen when i am under extreme amounts of stress. it will get better and i hope all is well(:

Is there any good Korean Tutors in Orlando?

I really would like to learn the language with the help of someone who is fluent. I am having trouble on my own if you are a tutor or know of anyone who is willing to give lessons in the Orlando area please answer I would really appreciate it.

Would it be unfair to get a bunny and then be at work for much of the day?

Yeah but if you get two rabbits then they will have one another to keep each other company while you're away. You shouldn't get one and then leave it alone most of the time. No animal or human likes to be by itself for too long. Social interaction is important in growth.

I pulled my processor out, is it broken?

How many times have you tried to re-seed the CPU/Heatsink? Have you only tried to put it back in the one time? If so, I would take it out again, and again try to put it back in. Perhaps when you were re-seeding it, you didn't quite get it in there properly. That would be the first thing I would try at the very least.

Should I buy a playmate for an orphaned wild mouse?

I'm taking care of an orphaned wild mouse a neighbor found in her home the other day. I believe she's about 16 days old since her eyes opened the day she came into our care and it's been about two days since then. I know mice are social creatures so I worry about her being alone. I sometimes let her sleep in my hand (in a tissue of course) so she gets the feeling of closeness with her caretaker, but I worry about her sleeping all day. I've found online that the best time to buy a pet mouse is five to six weeks old. I'm wondering if I should get her a playmate once she's that old? I know females tend to not fight amongst each other, and I'm fairly sure she's female, but I'm a bit worried since she's technically a wild animal.

Is it possible to be inlove with someone when you're far from each other?

He's my childhood friend, we used to play together before but as we grew we started to get awkward with each other, we aren't talking now, Maybe we are only just playmates before and not friends. then I migrated to other country and I can only see him once in a year. As years passed, we really grew apart, it's awkward and I can feel that he feels the same way too, last september 2010 I went home in our country to have a vacation and I always caught him looking at me. But I need to leave the country again to continue my study and from then on he is always appearing in my dream, whenever I think of him I am feeling something weird in my heart, I always go to his site (facebook to be particular) just to see his face, it's really weird and now I am thinking of him everyday and that weird feeling in my heart is always there, I really wanted to see him. But I am afraid to admit to myself that I am inlove because for me, its impossible and I also don't want to get hurt, I am here in different country, I mean, is it possible to be inlove with him? because we're too far from each other. I really never expected that I'll feel this way towards him because the fact that we just seeing each other once in a year, we're not even that close to each other and I don't have news about him, our connection is only my big brother because they are close friends, that's all. But I can't help it I keep on thinking of him evryday and that weird feeling is really unexplainable. Please help. Am I only infatuated or this is love?

I'm pregnant, what is up with my husband?

So, we have been married for over a year and have a great relationship. I'm currently in my eighth month of pregnancy. We are best friends, get along great, and he has been wonderful for the most part. Always does stuff to make me feel comfortable and gives me massages, etc. My husband is very polite and doesn't have a bad bone in him. So, I'm confused as to why he is acting different. For the past few months we have had sex less and I'm assuming it's because of the pregnancy. I've not gained any weight with this pregnancy (my first) and I still feel attractive. I've noticed that he doesn't give me attention like he used to. Now, I've never been an attention whore. In fact, I hate it. I'm shy and love for that person I love to be focused on me. I'm low maintenance. Well we have been laying in bed reading or whatever and he has picked up Sudoku in the past three weeks. I thought it was just something to pass time, but have been noticing that every time we lay in bed to watch movies or something he grabs the newspaper and pen and focuses on his game. It's like tonight. I was reading the newspaper on the sofa and he's beside me playing the Sudoku. He doesn't even look up for an hour. We are watching Celebrity Apprentice and I go out of the room and come back to find his attention on the Playboy Playmate in the bubble bath. Of course, that can get his attention and make him break from Sudoku, but for some reason I can't. I've actually noticed lately when watching TV or movies that attractive women is getting his attention where as he never really showed it before. Doesn't make me feel too good. In fact it's insulting to me as I've tried lately and nothing seems to work. We have sex about once a week now and it's bothering me as we've never had problems. I'm at the point that my self-esteem is taking a hit and I'm so afraid when the baby comes that everything will just get worse and we will have no intimacy at all.

Vehicle Aftermarket Alpine 9886 Stereo Head Unit shutting off only inner speakers.and leaving sub woofer on.?

check the fuses, you might need to change those out. But if you got it working again it might have just been too hot. But before you go in and do any major changes, ALWAYS check the fuses first. thats what theyre there for.

Any of you ladies having trouble getting your hubby on the baby train again?

I feel Soooo similar to you, I Could have written this myself exactly! My husband says the very same thing as your husband, but he also sports the whole 'I'm not sure I can love another baby as I love S!!' I'm sorry, it bums me out too...but we just have to wait until our hubs' are ready, I say bring it up every 6 months, no more...don't make him feel pressured. Good luck! :)

Raising two puppies? Why do people so BAD IDEA?

Well I'm in the same predicament. Only I have two male pitbulls. I had a golden retriever which is close to the problems and attitudes of ur lab. Never had a husky but I am going to school for vet tech and have always been interested in dogs. Number 1: ppl say its a bad idea because of the amount of tension and stress it causes. U r doin right by separating them and giving each their own time. Number two: don't let them even begin to fight because it will cause competition and slight domination in one if your dogs. Which at sum point, the dominant dog might test u or the one getting bullied will lash out on the other one. Kinda like Wat ppl do wen being bullied. Number three: research each breed. Labs r natural hunters and retrievers. They tend to be more hyper and smell out where the garbage is, where ur shoes r, etc. They don't really stop chewing till they r two. Find games that let het natural instincts take hold. She will be more attentive and eager to learn and play. The husky, I know they r workers and also very hyper. U have to walk them to burn out their energy. Once u master each dogs bad habits then it will be ok to train them to do something together. The best thing about ur situation is u have two similar dogs that can relate to each other with playing and training. Luckily u didn't get a poodle and a husky. Lol. Also, the success stories I heard have been from professional trainers and also regular ppl. U have to give each dog confidence and comfort. They each have to know u r the alpha and they r equal.

Should I Keep this turtle?

I found the cutest little turtle in my yard he is like less than a pound it look like he is a baby there a lake by my house but i dont want to put him there and my mom doesnt know i have him in my room in my old turtle tank its small and under my bed im gonna tell her she is gonna freak but if i keep him what do turtles eat? and do they need playmates? and how do i know if its girl or boy?

Friday, July 15, 2011

Is it possible to be inlove with someone when you're far from each other?

He's my childhood friend, we used to play together before but as we grew we started to get awkward with each other, we aren't talking now, Maybe we are only just playmates before and not friends. then I migrated to other country and I can only see him once in a year. As years passed, we really grew apart, it's awkward and I can feel that he feels the same way too, last september 2010 I went home in our country to have a vacation and I always caught him looking at me. But I need to leave the country again to continue my study and from then on he is always appearing in my dream, whenever I think of him I am feeling something weird in my heart, I always go to his site (facebook to be particular) just to see his face, it's really weird and now I am thinking of him everyday and that weird feeling in my heart is always there, I really wanted to see him. But I am afraid to admit to myself that I am inlove because for me, its impossible and I also don't want to get hurt, I am here in different country, I mean, is it possible to be inlove with him? because we're too far from each other. I really never expected that I'll feel this way towards him because the fact that we just seeing each other once in a year, we're not even that close to each other and I don't have news about him, our connection is only my big brother because they are close friends, that's all. But I can't help it I keep on thinking of him evryday and that weird feeling is really unexplainable. Please help. Am I only infatuated or this is love?

Should I let my 4 year old have a "Boyfriend"?

Selena, My 4 year old, goes to preschool where she met a boy. She likes him and he likes her and she asked me if they could be boyfriend and girlfriend. At their age boyfriends and girlfriends are practically just playmates. Should I Let Selena have a boyfriend?

Korean Colored Contacts?

Hi! Now ice been looking for cheap colored contacts and surprisingly found some at a store called Impressions. It was called something Korean contacts and it had many colors and it was only 17 dollars and was displayed on the counter! Do you know anywhere else these contacts were sold on counter? Any store? Thanks!

Is there anything I can do about my anxiety?

To start off, I'm a 16-year old male, I exercise daily, I eat right and my lifestyle has been good until a few weeks ago. For the past few weeks, my anxiety has been just horrible . Every day is another struggle for me. At night I feel detached from my surroundings. I can't fall asleep because every time I go to sleep because of my shortness of breath. I have frequent nightmares and vivid dreams that leave me waking up in the middle of the night gasping for air. I don't even want to go to sleep at night because I know that i'll have another nightmare. Throughout the day I don't feel like myself, I feel as if I'm just floating around. I hate feeling this way, It makes me feel like I have a rare and serious disease that will eventually kill me. I just feel empty. I also have frequent obsessive thoughts about my breathing and my heart beat, like if my heartbeat gets weaker, I immediately think that there's something wrong with me. I'm seeing a psychiatrist about my problems but it hasn't helped at all so far and I don't want to start taking anxiety medication. Is there any hope for me?

Are you fan of the 1958 cult classic "Attack of the 50 Foot Woman?"?

Can't say I'm a fan of the film, but that linked story is really sad. I'm convinced that's the way I'm gonna go out...Dead for a year before anyone will care enough to notice :(

Where can i watch City Hall Korean Drama online with eng subs?

I'm pretty certain that City Hall is on Dramafever.com. You can also try dramasub.com, veoh and youtube.

Do i have to quarintine my two guinea pigs?

i just got my female a new playmate, they both came from the same place also. they seem to be getting along fine and making alot of noises, eating together and in the hutch together fine. what are some signs to look for? i dont have a seperate cage for the new one.

How to start a laptop without screen or keyboard.?

I have recently come into possession of a laptop that was destroyed by its previous owner. The screen was completely ripped from the hinges and the keyboard has fallen off as well. I have plugged it in to see if there was any chance of it running and I found myself successful hearing the sound of the fan and seeing power lights pop up. I suppose the person that tried destroying it only succeed in making it impractical. My question is if there is any way of getting it started up again. I have a monitor I can use to replace the detached screen and a few keyboards as well. Anyways I hope that it is possible for this computer to come back to life.

Male coworker said this to me what is it suppose to mean?

so the other day at work one of my male coworkers told me i look like a playmate. where i work dress code is business atier. so i was dressed very professionaly, not sluty at all. the only skin i had that was showing was my face,neck and hands. anyways he said it was a complament. and one of the female coworkers asked ifi ever thought of moddeling, because she said i was very attractive and that i had very beautiful eyes. but my aunt said that because that guy said that it means he wants to screw me. is that what that realy means. i have bee told before that i have a realy nice neck.

Relationship Problems ?

Maybe you just aren't ready, or mature to have a boyfriend. You shouldn't force yourself though, eventually a guy will come along that you want to go to that next level of a relationship with.

Will my Gf get mad if i ask her to find a playmate for Saturday?

I've always had this crazy fetish about 2 girls getting it on, Do most girls get mad if you ask them this questions? i want to know what most girls think about this.

Is this normal for a gerbil?

Sounds like she's especially connected with you, since she gets a lot of attention from you and you're like her cage mate. Some gerbils enjoy being up when their human is up, some don't. I've had multiple gerbils who have done this before as well, and usually it's the ones that are closest with me.

Good Afternoon Dog Section?

We got a Jack Russel/Rat Terrier mix last year. About 3 months later we ended up getting another Jack Russel to keep her company. I think it helped our Jack Rat as we're gone much of the day. Sophie seems more content with her friend Roush around. They bonded very quickly and have since become a rather formidable team to reckon with. Being Jacks, their energy level is through the roof, and we're never quite sure what we'll come home to on a daily basis. 2 computer chairs 1 couch 4 sets of curtains and several power cords later, we still wouldn't trade them for anything... most days.

How well would I do in the South if I am..?

I'm a korean guy and I'm pretty nice guy and relaxed and mild-mannered. How well would I do if i went to the southern states of the u.s? anybody living there currently? (Tennesse, Texas, Alabama, Georgia, Carolinas..)

How to introduce a new Pug puppy to my current Pug puppy?

Mistake getting another puppy, your first puppy is not trained, the bladder is just grown, adding a new puppy will undo all the work you did with potty training. The stress of new schedules will mess up both puppies. It is only 1 hour for each month of age with puppies, so a 2 month old puppy can only be alone/hold its potty for 2 hours at the most. No one will be there for either puppy, this is a terrible thing to do to either of these puppies. You can't train a puppy in 3 days. I hope this question is one of those joke questions I just don't understand. I hope your question is just a bad joke. This would be terrible for both puppies, I hope it is just a joke question. Please don't get another puppy, please don't be that cruel. I take my older dogs outside and then introduce the new puppy outside so if anyone has to pee they do it outside. It takes older dogs a while to warm up to new puppies, usually a few months. The baby teeth come out between 4 and 6-months-old and the puppy gets a little bigger then. While I expect them to work some things out on their own, I step in when anyone does a behavior I don't allow. Be fair, if the older dog starts it, correct that, if the younger one starts it, correct that. I use the command "shame" so I point at the one who started it, snap my fingers, and use a command "shame" when they behave, I praise them. I use Charlee Bears for potty training, so when the new puppy goes potty, she gets a treat, and so do the other dogs. The puppy learns to share treats and that she is not more important than the other dogs. I do everything as a group. Potty, leashes, training, walks, play time, combing hair, it is all done as a group. You can give an older dog extra attention while you are waiting for a puppy to go potty. While I expect them to work some things out, I correct any behavior I don't allow, the second it starts, they are each others pack now, but it is my job to step in and correct any behaviors I don't allow. It just takes time but you get out of them what you put into them, so hang in there.

How do I introduce 2 guinea pigs? 10 points! Read the details carefully!?

Ok, so my daughter and her friend both have one guinea pig. They are both female, and they want them to be playmates. How do we introduce them? No, they will NOT be cagemates, the other guinea pig is staying for 1 week while my daughter's friend goes away for vacation. Give me step by step details!! 10 points are at stake!!

Can or should I bring my 8 week kitten back to see his mom and siblings for a visit?

My boyfriend's cat had a litter of six kittens 4/10/11. Since then we have given 3 away, he is keeping 2, and I am keeping one (we live seperately). I just took my little dude home this weekend and he was fine but I know he's super active and loves to play and misses his playmates. I took him back last night for a visit, and he went up to the mom cat and she pretty much ignored him so then he wound up playing though with his two brothers just like they did before. By the end when I took him home that night, the mom kind of looked sad when we took him and he whined in the car a bit (but I don't know if that's because he just didn't enjoy the car ride as he meowed on the way over as well). So there were no real problems, but I'm just wondering is it benefical or detrimental doing this? I was planning on just doing this like once or twice a week have a visit til he gets older and isn't as interested in playing. I know it's good for him to play, but is it just confusing them all? If anyone has advice, like a vet or animal rescuer that would be great.

How to feel special and valued again after being used?

I'm 16 and I lost my virginity to a guy 8 years older than me who convinced me that he loved me.. We dated for like 4 months and then havent talked in 2 weeks cuz I guess he's done with me since I won't have a 3some with him. I trusted him and gave myself to him completely and the fact that he could just totally drop me and detach himself hurts so much. He was my first bf and I just can't stop crying and feeling worthless and abandoned. How can I feel better and get over him? Please be kind, I've heard enough harsh advice.

Is it possible to be inlove with someone when you're far from each other?

He's my childhood friend, we used to play together before but as we grew we started to get awkward with each other, we aren't talking now, Maybe we are only just playmates before and not friends. then I migrated to other country and I can only see him once in a year. As years passed, we really grew apart, it's awkward and I can feel that he feels the same way too, last september 2010 I went home in our country to have a vacation and I always caught him looking at me. But I need to leave the country again to continue my study and from then on he is always appearing in my dream, whenever I think of him I am feeling something weird in my heart, I always go to his site (facebook to be particular) just to see his face, it's really weird and now I am thinking of him everyday and that weird feeling in my heart is always there, I really wanted to see him. But I am afraid to admit to myself that I am inlove because for me, its impossible and I also don't want to get hurt, I am here in different country, I mean, is it possible to be inlove with him? because we're too far from each other. I really never expected that I'll feel this way towards him because the fact that we just seeing each other once in a year, we're not even that close to each other and I don't have news about him, our connection is only my big brother because they are close friends, that's all. But I can't help it I keep on thinking of him evryday and that weird feeling is really unexplainable. Please help. Am I only infatuated or this is love?

Why does the North Korea women's soccer team all have such short lesbian haircuts?

I watch the Women's World Cup to support our American girls, but the North Korean girls (I don't even want to call them that) are some nasty eyesores. That is unfortunate, because Korean girls are generally beautiful!

On A Hunt For A Book/Manga/Manhwa I Once Read?

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I have a 3 yr old son. I was away for teachers college, while my husband was staying in Mississauga and carin?

I know it may be hard that you don't have transportation, but this lady is your baby sitter and on her off days she needs them. It is not that she does not like your baby, she needs time to herself, the baby is not her obligation on her off days. Sure she has other friends and so should you, start a coop are maybe the ones that you meet with let them know you don't have a car, and I am sure one of them will pick you and your son up to go and meet with them. Sometimes it is hard to be with children when their Mother is around they become loud, and crying for no reason and clingy, and may be the baby sitter has this issue. I have worked with children for many years and when we have parent meeting some will act up so they can go to the office and see their mothers in the meeting they are working good and when the mother arrives reverts to babyhood.

Is it possible to be inlove with someone when you're far from each other?

He's my childhood friend, we used to play together before but as we grew we started to get awkward with each other, we aren't talking now, Maybe we are only just playmates before and not friends. then I migrated to other country and I can only see him once in a year. As years passed, we really grew apart, it's awkward and I can feel that he feels the same way too, last september 2010 I went home in our country to have a vacation and I always caught him looking at me. But I need to leave the country again to continue my study and from then on he is always appearing in my dream, whenever I think of him I am feeling something weird in my heart, I always go to his site (facebook to be particular) just to see his face, it's really weird and now I am thinking of him everyday and that weird feeling in my heart is always there, I really wanted to see him. But I am afraid to admit to myself that I am inlove because for me, its impossible and I also don't want to get hurt, I am here in different country, I mean, is it possible to be inlove with him? because we're too far from each other. I really never expected that I'll feel this way towards him because the fact that we just seeing each other once in a year, we're not even that close to each other and I don't have news about him, our connection is only my big brother because they are close friends, that's all. But I can't help it I keep on thinking of him evryday and that weird feeling is really unexplainable. Please help. Am I only infatuated or this is love?

Does my boxer need another playmate?

so my mom has two boxers. both female. ones the mom and the younger one the daughter. well the daughter is very active and sorta hyper. so when the mom sits on the couch and the younger one wants to play she'll bark. and the mom will just continue to sit there and ignore her daughter. so my question is, should we get the younger one another playmate? what would be a good playmate?

How to learn English for Koreans?

MY mom wants to learn English and we're trying to scout out an appropriate book for her. Does anyone have any book recommendations? A link to a website? Any input or information on the subject matter will be well-appreciated. Thanks :D

How long does it take to learn korean?

it all depends how "wanting" you are to learn. if you have the goal of learning korean, then stay focosed on your goal. and time will tell :)

At what age is a birthday party the child's instead of the parents'?

It should always be about them, not the parents. For the first and possibly the second birthday, its understandable to invite only family friends, because those are the people who care the most about the child, then, as soon as the child begins making friends, they should be invited along with a few of the closest adults who really care about the child, like godparents, close family friends, etc. It should never be friends who are just the parents friends and really couldnt care about the child. With my kids, for their first couple birthdays it was just family friends and family, but they were all close friends who cared about the child, they werent there for me, then when they were three and started socializing more and started preschool we invited their preschool friends. I think that you should remind your sister that this is her childs birthday, not hers, on her birthday she can invite her friends, but this is her childs birthday and should be centered around them, including their friends, not her friends and their older kids who are only there for the cake and because their parents said they had to.

Is there any way to search for a home based on size of living room or dining room?

No. Since there are no rules as to how people use each room in their house there is no way to search for such parameters. But when considering houses built within the the past 20 years you often can by identifying the living room as a "great room". Great rooms imply a larger size and the label is often used when there are more than one living rooms designated in the house. I hope this helps your search. FYI, don't be afraid to call the Realtors of the houses you like to verify room sizes before you take the time to see the properties. That is their job to do. Good Luck.

What happens when you don't get time for yourself in your relationship?

Me and my girl hang out almost everynight and I just don't have "me time" anymore. I've been feeling a little down and i feel like i've just been detached from my regular life because I've been spending so much time with her. I really like her and I'm falling in love with her but is it normal to want some time to myself sometimes? Tonight is really the first night weve spent apart and it feels great just to chill on my own and have some me time for once. Can you become depressed by spending too much time with your boyfriend/girlfriend?

Thursday, July 14, 2011

How do young Koreans view homosexuality?

First of all, I am not gay, I'm just trying to learn the Korean culture so in the future I may visit South Korea :) I'm talking about Korean teenagers and Koreans in their twenties. What do you guys think about being gay? I know Korea is a conservative country, but would you guys be friends with a homosexual or bisexual? Why or why not? Again, I'm not gay, just wondering. Thanks :)

How to enable internet from computer?

Ok, so my mom had officially decided that i'm becoming detached from the real world (i'm not, I swear to you) and she turns off my internet every night from her computer at about 10:30 (which sucks, I want my friggin' Netflix!) And I was wondering how to turn it back on from my computer (she doesn't plug it out, she just has a thing on her computer, I think it has a set time) And I want to turn it back on from my computer! My OS is Windows 7 (home edition, if that matters) And hers is Mac. Can I do this without her knowing? She never comes in my room, so.... PLEASE HELP! And only answers relating to the question, please. No "If she's your mom you should listen to her" s.

Where Can I Find This Asian Show with Eng Subs?

Ok I miss this old korean (i think) show called "Hot Shot" Where can i find those shows now with english subtitles

Sims 2 Double Deluxe Problem?

I am trying to install Sims 2 Double Deluxe (which includes Sims 2,Sims 2 Nightlife & Celebration Stuff) and the installation starts normally but when it reaches 3% it stops and another window pops out which says "A problem occured when trying to transfer the file 'E:/Base/TSData/Res/Locale/Korean/UI/Fon… from the media. " and then it says "Do you want to retry to copy the file, or cancel the installation?" and i select yes and it happens the same thing again...pleaseee help me!!!!

Please.. I have a serious question? 10 points.. just need some advice?

talk to him about it...dont waste ur time on the internet cause you never know for sure until you talk to him one on one. good luck name the baby after me!

I often find women's rationality flawed?

Interesting, since *I* have found man-logic to be based almost entirely on falsehoods and viewed through a veil of emotion.

In love with older man...?

I am in love with an older man. He is 39 and I am 15. I know it sounds really bad and is looked down upon, so don't tell me all that ethical crap I already know. He was my first and only person I've ever had sex with, the problem is he lives very far away and doesn't have the money to visit me now so it is stressing our relationship. He was married once before but has no kids. I am very comfortable with him and I trust him with everything. I need help with tips to detach myself from him and move on because this relationship is not healthy for either of us. thank you!

Whats the best Asian country for teaching English in?

Check out Mongolia. They've been recruiting like crazy. They are passionate about their children learning English.

My bf of 12 years suddenly...?

my best friend's boyfriend of 12 years suddenly deleted her from his facebook account and never added her back on. He deleted me from facebook too after I told her what's on his page. I wonder if he's trying to detach her from his life slowly....help?

Cat scratchd toddler few times toddler somtimes provokd i put cat out to wait solution hes gonewas i wrong?

i had tried to seperate them ,making a play area in basement for cat, cat has a mini dog playmate as well as well as working with my little one by showing animal bites that were accidental in videos and so on, i finally had chosen to possibly declaw or find a new home and was in the process of making arrangements for either of those though it was heartbreaking as the cat is amazing and was rescued by me and her from the banks of a river 8 months ago and such a part of the family though still a bit wild as animals can tend to be and i put him out after the last scratch he never returned i am sad and i wonder what else i should have done..he started 2 spray as well lately due surely to a neighbors cat that had broken in to my basement via the dryers vent and sprayed the basement in multitude and i was going 2 get him spayed at the vet this week as well...4 this new problem is it possible the other cats odd behavior and roaming around outside spiked a little more than wild in my cats behavior in the recent history i described..as it seems i was closer to domesticating him up until 2 months ago via scratches, when these neighbors moved in? as well they just moved out this week and took their cat..if he comes back should i try again hoping??

What is a good name for this girl?

I'm writing a book that takes place a long time ago (maybe 1600s, but thats not a definite), about a boy who grew up wild and crazy but ends up meeting his childhood playmate again as a young man and falls in love with her, making him softer. His name is Gabriel. The girl he loves is tiny, sweet but has a bit of spark to her, and completely charming. What would be a good name for her? Nothing modern please - it wouldn't fit with the time period of the book. Thank you! :)

What is wrong with my cat? He's acting weird?

I've had my cat Socks for 6 yrs. For the last year he has been an only cat because his brother died. About a month ago I decided to get him a playmate because I know how much he loved his brother. It took 3 weeks for them to get along. He was very stubborn. So, for the last 2 weeks Socks and the new kitten, Boots have been great buddies. But today something happened. For some reason that I have no clue about, he starting growling and hissing at the new kitten! They stay indoors and Socks is neutered, Boots isn't old enough yet. I got home about 5:00, my kids wanted to play outside so I left the door open and the 2 cats were just sitting at the door looking out. About 30 min or so later, Socks ran under the table and starting getting very aggressive towards Boots. Socks always gets upset when he sees a strange cat outside, you think he saw a cat outside and triggered this? I don't know what to do. Its really bad. He is hissing and growling as I type. Boots, the kitten is staying away from him because he knows something is wrong with Socks. Any advice?

I'm stressing out and going insane. What should I do about my relationship?

Okay, so I've been in a relationship with a girl for over 9 months now, and at first it felt like the best thing ever, now it's stressing me out. It's something about her that just really, really turn me off at times. She makes me dislike stuff that I was once interested in. Like, I've always had a good relationship with god, and I always felt like he has a plan for is all. But the way she slang god around, using him against everything that she doesn't agree with morally, annoys me. I was stressed out before we hooked up but not so much. She's blaming my zodiac sign for the way I act towards her, not knowing it's her that's making me act that way. I'm an Aquarius, and she claims my personality fits the role of an Aquarius, as far as being stressed out and detached in our relationship. And she said if I was born as another sign, I may not act the way that I act. What pisses me off, is the fact that I told her what I went through in high school and over the years, which has an affect on how I may be with some people. Plus, she's overly sensitive. Sometimes, not a lot, I joke around with sarcasm, and it'll piss her off, making her call me sinister. Her mother takes up most of her time, and it leaves me high and dry because we can only talk when she's free. And usually it's not a balanced enough time for me because at the time that I'm busy, she's free or busy, and at the time that I'm free, she doesn't have much time for me. I'm so pissed thinking about it, that I can't even get across what I really want to say. And all of this stress is making me gain weight, when I'm usually an active person but I've been to stressed to workout.